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How can I host a DIY British high tea at home? I had the most amazing experience having high tea in an old vintage tea in England. I sat in a warm, cozy room filled with antique tea pots, flowery wall paper and the smell of freshly baked cakes. A three-tiered white serving dish sat […]

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DIY High tea, a recipe guide

How can I host a DIY British high tea at home?

I had the most amazing experience having high tea in an old vintage tea in England. I sat in a warm, cozy room filled with antique tea pots, flowery wall paper and the smell of freshly baked cakes. A three-tiered white serving dish sat at the center of my table, covered in finger sandwiches, scones, cake, and macaroons. Needless to say, I fell in love with the idea of drinking tea and eating fancy, delicious foods from adorable dishes. Unfortunately, back home in California, high tea is not nearly as popular as it is in England. Which means when I returned home from my trip abroad, my heart had a tea-time void that needed to be filled. So I decided a DIY High Tea was necessary. 

DIY British High Tea

For those who do not know what high tea is, I am not entirely sure either to be quite honest. I have been scolded for explaining it incorrectly in the past, so let’s just stick to thinking of high tea as a social outing that involves yummy tea, sandwiches and desserts. 

Without many options for high tea in So Cal, I decided to make a guide on how to have your own high tea at home. It is full of some amazing recipes that I found from my favorite food bloggers. I included a lot of options as well, just incase a few recipes don’t hit the spot for you or your guests.

The structure of high tea is simple, and if you don’t have a three tiered dish like this one, just use separate pretty plates or dishes!

High tea, a recipe guide

The Bottom Tier 

Finger Sandwiches: This tier is all about variety! Choose a few recipes and have one (or two) of each. Here are some of my favorite recipes.

  1. This delicious option combines the deliciousness of avocado with the famous egg salad sandwich. Yes, it is a spicy avocado egg salad sandwich, and you will LOVE it.
  2. Now, one for the meat lovers. These mini Italian club sandwiches will have you reaching for more.
  3. For those who are more traditional, these cream cheese tea sandwiches are delicious and adorable.

 

The Middle Tier

Scones with clotted cream and jam: This is the essential part! Of course sandwiches are delicious, but the scones make for the classic high tea experience.

DIY British High Tea

This is my scone after I added clotted cream, but before I added jam. I inhaled it immediately after putting on jam and my camera wasn’t quick enough to get a picture!

Scones:

  1. For the fun and fruity scone lover in your life, these dark chocolate cranberry scones will be everything you could want, and more.
  2. If you’re looking for the traditional scone recipe, you cannot go wrong with this easy and delectable option.

Clotted cream: If you have never heard of clotted cream, you are missing out! And I don’t just mean missing out like you missed a shooting star, it’s more like you missed your BFF’s birthday party and Beyoncé showed up. It is basically a thick and soft cream. Not quite cream cheese, but not quite sour cream. The taste is mild, but the cool texture of the cream on the flakey scone is THE BEST. The only stores in the US I have found it at are World Market (called Double Devon Cream), and Whole Foods! Try making your own if you don’t have a World Market or Whole Foods nearby.

You will also need your favorite jam! If you are serious about this and want to make your own… more power to you. But I am OK with picking up an apricot spread and spending my time on the clotted cream.

The Top Tier to your DIY High Tea

Dessert (AKA cake and macaroons): The final stage! Unless you are my grandma and eat the cake first.

  1. Carrot cake is very popular out here in England, and sorry America… but it is so much better here! Luckily, now that I am back to the states, I have this recipe to go off of and make sure I can have it whenever I want.
  2. Want those famous macaroons, but aren’t sure if you can make them yourself? Look no further, because you CAN! Not only can you make these salted caramel macaroons, you will lick the bowl when you’re done.
DIY High Tea

The Tea for your DIY High Tea

The easiest, but most essential part is choosing your tea. Grab some of your favorite tea bags and put them into the cutest tea pot you own. If there is one thing you get out of this post it should be to PUT MILK IN YOUR TEA. Yes, I’m yelling. If you haven’t tried it, please please please do! My favorite is black tea with cream. It maintains the mild but delicious taste of the tea, with a whole lot of added creaminess.

Now go off, gather your friends and enjoy great food and even better times. Let me know how it goes. Looking for other ways to intentionally gather with friends? Check out my DIY paint and sip night post!

DIY British High Tea at Home

 

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How to host a paint and sip night I’ve been looking for ways to be more intentional with my get togethers. Sure, the come on over and sit on the couch and have some drinks is nice. But as the host, I start to get that internal panic, “is everyone having fun? How else can […]

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Pillows and blankets make a great ambience for DIY paint and sip night

How to host a paint and sip night

I’ve been looking for ways to be more intentional with my get togethers. Sure, the come on over and sit on the couch and have some drinks is nice. But as the host, I start to get that internal panic, “is everyone having fun? How else can I entertain?” Hosting can feel like a lot of pressure, and I think that feeling is made worse when there isn’t a set itinerary or planned out activities.

I consider myself an introvert, so any get together is usually accompanied by lots of indecision on whether I want to attend at all. But recently I have found myself wanting more of that social interaction. It seems like many of the exciting times we get together in our 20s are centered on celebrations, someone is getting married, having a baby, or graduating from college. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE a good celebration! But I think we should start to replace our casual hang outs with something more exciting, even if we aren’t celebrating anything or anyone.

SO, I am on the quest for better, more intentional gatherings. I recently started reading The Art of Gathering, and although I am not far enough to start putting my learnings from Priya Parker into action, I did host my first intentional gathering!

Who doesn’t love a paint and sip? Idk, but they are no friend of mine. Thus, my DIY Paint and Sip Night was born. I’m including all of the elements I took into consideration, and some fun tips for how you can host your own paint and sip night too!

DIY Paint and Sip Night with a great ambience, music and food.

1. Who to invite to your paint and sip night

I started with my guest list (you may want to swap step 1 and 2, totally up to your preference). This was important to me, because who I am inviting will determine the location, the activities and the food. I even put my guest list above choosing a date. I have a small group of friends, so I prefer deciding on a date together, to maximize the turnout and include everyone. So first, decide who you want to paint and sip with, then invite them.

 

2. Setting a date for your paint and sip night

I like to set a date after I’ve come up with my guest list, so that I can work with my friends to find a date that works for all, or most of us. But of course if you’ve got a big flourishing list of potential guests, you may want to set the date first and whoever can come, comes!

Other than finding a date that works for most of my friends, I also like to consider the day of the week and optimal time frame.

Weeknight vs. weekend: I love having fun on weeknights, but if there are drinks involved, who wants to wake up at 6 a.m. after a paint and sip?

Time of the day: Should we wind down with a paint and sip? Or use it to start our day? Don’t forget, if you’re hosting during a meal time, you should be feeding your guests more than just snacks!

 

3. Food and drinks for a DIY paint and sip nightWine and charcuterrie for DIY paint and sip night at home.

Great, you’ve got a date and guest list. Now if you’re like me, this step is the best part. Setting the menu for a paint and sip night can be so much fun. Start off by setting some of the basics.

What time is my paint and sip? If you’ll have guests over around noon, or 5 p.m. it is best hosting etiquette to provide a meal for your guests. If you want to avoid that and just stick to snacks, be sure to choose a timeframe that avoids those major meal times in step 2.

I decided on a 4 p.m. start time, starting with appetizers and wine, and making our way to spaghetti and meatballs as the main course. No, spaghetti and meatballs is not the cleanest meal, but I’ve been leaning into my Italian heritage and wanted to share it a little bit with my friends!

I personally think appetizers are the most important part of a party. They are a key discussion piece, they keep your guests fed and happy, and they’re delicious, duh. You can never go wrong with a charcuterie board, so my appetizer was a board full of delicious meats and cheeses from Trader Joe’s, along with their mini baguettes, and fig jam.

Some other paint and sip friendly appetizers are these mini caprese skewers, grilled peach and burrata crostinis, or these honey sriracha turkey meatballs.

As for drinks, this is a great place to get your guests involved. Ask each of your guests to bring their favorite bottle of wine. It doesn’t have to be fancy, but by everyone bringing a bottle, you can ensure there is something everyone likes, and you get to have fun sampling each other’s wines!

 

4. The actual painting at your DIY Paint and Sip night

Oh yeah, we gathered to paint huh? Once the drinks are flowing and the appetizers start to disappear, it’s a great time to start on the painting portion of your at home paint and sip night. There are a few key logistical considerations to make with this.Paintings done by friends at our DIY paint and sip night

Where will you paint? I have a small apartment, so there weren’t many options for me. But you’ll want to paint somewhere that you won’t be distraught if someone spills a bit of paint (or wine), and somewhere that is comfortable to sit. For my paint and sip night, this meant setting up pillows and blankets on the floor, around my living room coffee table.

What will you paint with? If one of your friends is a creative, or has paints of their own, awesome! But as the host, you should be providing the materials. I got water color paint, brushes, and paper from Target.

Will you have guided painting, or is it a free for all? You could set up a paint as you go video on YouTube like this one, or everyone can find something that inspires them and paint away. We went the route of painting on our own because we all had different tastes. But it was so fun to see what everyone came up with at the end.

 

6. Other activities for your paint and sip night

I know, a paint and sip should be enough. But once the drinks are flowing and you’re done painting, your guests may not be ready to leave. Have a few other activities up your sleeve so that you don’t have to panic when there is nothing left to do. We personally always have Scattergories on hand (our favorite game ever!) But this time we also had a TikTok challenge we wanted to do. The challenge includes everyone being blindfolded, and dancing to a selected song while being recorded. Then you can remove your blindfold and laugh at how differently everyone danced to the same song! So fun, but I will spare you from watching the footage.

 

7. Set the ambience for your paint and sip nightPillows and blankets make a great ambience for DIY paint and sip night

Part of my goal for more intentional gatherings, includes taking it a step further! I want everyone to have a great time, and enjoy great food. But I also want to set a great ambience for people to be transported into our get together, and away from any worries or outside life!

Light every candle you have in your house, grab the prettiest bunch of flowers from Trader Joe’s and find a great playlist.

With great guests, delicious food, fun activities, and a specially curated ambience, your guests are sure to love your DIY Paint and Sip night.

Paint and sip night food, charcuterrie and wine.

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How to spend two days in Joshua Tree https://thegirlwithacat.com/2023/05/12/two-days-in-joshua-tree/ https://thegirlwithacat.com/2023/05/12/two-days-in-joshua-tree/#respond Fri, 12 May 2023 04:26:07 +0000 https://thegirlwithacat.com/?p=1 Cholla Cactus Garden at Joshua Tree National Park

There are so many beautiful places to see in the town, and the National Park. So what are the best places to see in Joshua Tree in two days?

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Cholla Cactus Garden at Joshua Tree National Park

There are so many beautiful places to see in the town, and the National Park. So what are the best places to see in Joshua Tree in two days?

With the New Year arriving, and one of my resolutions being to spend more time in nature, what better place to ring in the New Year than Joshua Tree? We decided to spend our holiday in Joshua Tree because of its natural beauty, off-the-grid-esque experience, and surprisingly close proximity.

We only had enough time to spend one night in Joshua Tree. We packed as much as we could in to our 48 hours. Because there is so much to do in the National Park, we felt that spontaneity was important. We did also have a few places we made a point to see on our journey.

Joshua Tree National Park

Although Joshua Tree National Park is beautiful regardless of time of year, we were lucky that it snowed just days before we arrived. Since snow is rare in Joshua Tree, we hadn’t seen any pictures of a snowy desert landscape. The Joshua Trees, cacti and mountains were gorgeous covered in white blankets of snow, and luckily we didn’t even need chains.

A huge reason we chose Joshua Tree was to disconnect from our busy day to day lives. We get so caught up in social media, work, school, etc. that it was a much needed two days of taking in nature and exploring a beautiful place. There isn’t much phone service out there, so you won’t see any one scrolling through their Insta feed while on a trail (and you won’t even be tempted to).

Another plus was how close to us Joshua Tree really is. We had never been to a National Park, so when we discovered that it was only an hour and a half from us, we knew we had to go. We live in the Claremont/Upland part of the Greater Los Angeles areas, so we basically took the 10 freeway the entire way until we arrived in Yucca Valley. A simple, short drive to a beautiful place? YES, PLEASE.

There are so many great things to see, but here is where we hiked, ate and stayed for our two-day Joshua Tree adventure.

Day 1 in Joshua Tree

Drive in to the west entrance of Joshua Tree National Park ($30 entrance fee is good for a week). Stop and hike to Barker Dam. Eat at The Rib Co. and last but not least, relax in your adorable Airbnb.

Barker Dam: After entering the park, we were in complete awe of all of the snow. Because of the scenery, the drive to Barker Dam felt short, but in reality it was probably about 30 minutes from the entrance. This was a relatively short hike, about 1.5 miles. Because of how frequently we stopped for pictures (okay so we didn’t totally disconnect on this trip) and some slippery snow, it took us about an hour and a half. It was a family friendly trail, with people of all ages hiking it. Because it was New Year’s Eve, and snowy, it’s likely that there were more visitors than normal. We did have to park in a turnout down the street from the regular parking lot, but it was totally worth the walk. On our drive out, we took in the scenery, and honestly driving through was an excursion in itself.

Barker Dam at Joshua Tree National Park

The Rib Co: We skipped lunch and went straight to the park, so after all of the hiking, we were starving. Given that it was New Years Eve, some of the places that were recommended to us had very long waits, including Joshua Tree Saloon. Some Yelp searches resulted in just a 15 minute drive to The Rib Co. which is technically in 29 Palms. From the ribs and steaks, to Mac ‘n cheese and baked beans, the food was deliciously homemade. Your taste buds will start to water right when you open your car door, thanks to a grill in the front of the restaurant letting off some serious smoky meat scents.

Our Airbnb: There is no shortage of adorable places to stay near the National Park. Honestly, the hotels/motels in the area are just not nearly as exciting or unique as the homes available on Airbnb. Our place was called the “Tin Can” and was on a lot with other tiny homes that shared a kitchen, pool and Jacuzzi. I wish we could have stayed longer to really use all of the amenities, but sipping wine under the stars in the hot tub was so relaxing.

How to spend two days in Joshua Tree National Park

After the hot tub and getting acclimated to our place for the night, we brought out our books, coloring books and painting supplies. It was a great way to relax after an adventurous day, and I fell asleep 2 hours before midnight (on New Years Eve!).

Day 2 in Joshua Tree

Start with breakfast at Crossroads Cafe, shop in Downtown and go back in to the National Park to see Hidden Valley, Cholla Cactus Garden and Skull Rock.

Crossroads Cafe & Shopping: This was recommended to us, and when we arrived, we realized it was also recommended to loads of other people. To be fair, it was New Years Day and we only had to wait 30 minutes before being seated. This restaurant is in downtown so there are a few vintage shops and places to get souvenirs right next door. We took advantage of the shops while we were waiting to be seated and got some fun Joshua Tree stickers and handmade leather notebooks from The Mincing Mockingbird.

Back to the important stuff, FOOD! I started off with an orange juice and it tasted like it was fresh-squeezed just for me. Their menu is unique, featuring a few of vegan options. I ordered the Piggy Pancakes, which are pancakes made with bacon, cheddar cheese and green onions in the batter and grilled to perfection! D.E.L.I.C.I.O.U.S.

Hidden Valley: We made it back in to the Park at about noon and headed straight for the Hidden Valley Trail. This one mile loop was an easy hike with just a few steep climbs to get down into the valley. Once you get down, it is a beautiful 360 degree view of boulders, blue sky and vegetation. If you’re into bouldering (I envy you), there were quite a few groups spending the day here to climb. We found a parking spot near the trail head and it only took us about an hour to complete, pictures and all.

Hidden Valley at Joshua Tree National Park

Cholla Cactus Garden: About a 20-30 minute drive from Hidden Valley is a magical patch of Cholla Cacti. Because of the distance, we almost didn’t go, but it ended up being one of my favorite stops of the trip. This area of Joshua Tree didn’t get any snow, so we got to see the traditional desert landscape.

Cholla Cactus Garden at Joshua Tree National Park

There was more than enough street parking right next to the cacti. But be careful, we saw someone get stuck by a few needles (and it wasn’t a pretty sight when they were trying to remove them.)

Skull Rock: Skull rock is iconic for Joshua Tree, so much so that we were lucky to find parking with the amount of families who were also stopping there. We stopped briefly, just to see the skull shaped boulder, and were on our way. If you’re looking to hang out there for a while, there are flat boulders where families were picnicking and kids were climbing, or there is a 1.7 mile hike you can embark on. This is one of those places you just have to see in Joshua Tree.

Joshua Tree National Park Skull Rock

We exited the Park at the 29 Palms exit, because we didn’t want to go back the way we came (and also it was near the closest gas station, oops).

This was such a brief trip, that I can’t wait to come back and explore more trails and visit more downtown restaurants. If you’re looking for more ideas and have a longer trip, check out this post with 15 Joshua Tree must-sees.

You can find a Joshua Tree National Park map here. Trust me, you’ll need it!

 

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Life lessons from a cat https://thegirlwithacat.com/2019/01/30/lessons-from-a-cat/ https://thegirlwithacat.com/2019/01/30/lessons-from-a-cat/#respond Wed, 30 Jan 2019 14:47:30 +0000 https://thegirlwithacat.com/2019/01/30/surprise-daughter-date/ Life lessons from a cat

Hi Everyone! Sansa here. The feline world is full of furry wisdom that you hoomans could really use some more of in your lives. There is nothing better than being a cat, so here are some life lessons from a cat that could help you live more like us. And no these lessons don’t involve […]

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Life lessons from a cat

Hi Everyone! Sansa here. The feline world is full of furry wisdom that you hoomans could really use some more of in your lives. There is nothing better than being a cat, so here are some life lessons from a cat that could help you live more like us. And no these lessons don’t involve licking your own butt or pooping in a box.

1. Get enough rest

You hoomans are always working so hard and over exerting yourselves. I mean, my mom and pop wake up before the sun and don’t come home until its dark, while I sleep allll day. How can you really enjoy life and do what you love, when you are always going, going, going! You all could learn from us cats and take a nap (or two) throughout the day to reenergize!

2. Dress to impress

I know, not everyone is lucky enough to always be dressed in their best tuxedo like I am. But cats in general are always well groomed and in a fancy fur coat. Our cute cleanliness is part of what makes everyone love us. So try getting ready for the day and licking yourself clean, maybe people will chase you around trying to pet you too.

3. Stay Curious

Curiosity did NOT kill the cat. Did you know the ending to that is, “but the satisfaction brought it back?” It may be because we have nine lives, but still. Our desire to discover what is under the blanket, in a box or behind a curtain keeps us excited for every single day ahead.  So take our advice hoomans, have some curiosity as you go through life and be excited to uncover the things that are hiding in your every day life. 

4. Surround yourself with the best people

Have you ever had a cat not like you and just simply walk away? It’s because we have an acute sense for who we like and who we would rather not use our energy and purrs on. Why do you hoomans insist on pretending you like people that you don’t? Cats are all about #goodvibesonly. So if we don’t like you, we aren’t pretending. Stop wasting your positive energy on people who don’t make you happy, and use it to love more cats instead.

5. Eat lots of fish

Hello Omega 3s! Salmon pate and tuna entrée are in heavy rotation in my diet. I’d like to take this moment to give a huge shout out to my pop for feeding me my wet food every night! Try to incorporate some more heart healthy fats into your diet the way us cats do.

6. Be Independent

Part of the reason cats are such great furry friends is because we don’t need your constant care and attention the way those dang dogs do. We are happy being on our own sometimes and know just when we are ready to share our love and energy with our hoomans.

7. Always land on your feet

The golden rule of the cat world! Landing on our feet may be a literal skill we have, but I encourage you hoomans to take a metaphorical look at this famous saying. Next time something in your life starts to knock you down, be the person that lands on their feet after a difficult situation. 

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